Confused...

I admit that my key to an efficient day is a planner. I had an initial doubt that I would get the 2010 Starbucks planner since nagtipid ako lately sa pagkakape but thanks to Dra. Joy who treated the whole Club T for coffee last Sunday she filled my sticker stub and presto, I got my much-coveted planner!

Here's the catch ~ when I arrived this morning in the office, the guard gave me my Christmas present from Maxicare ~ one boxed gift and a desk calendar. Since I already have a desk calendar courtesy of my Mom (Ninenok ko yun nasa bahay Mama! Peace!), I gave the Maxicare desk calendar to Grace instead. Now, time to open the boxed gift and oh my! I got the 2010 Maxicare Executive Planner.

Siyempre fan ako ng Starbucks planner so initially I thought kanino ko kaya ibibigay tong isa? While I was thinking, I flipped on the pages and hmmm, maganda pala si Maxicare planner. Tamang-tamang gamitin ng busy bee like me (echos!). So if I am to use this instead, pano naman itong Starbucks planner? To whom shall I pass it on? Kaso, baka magkatampuhan pa ang friendships kasi maraming nagpapatulong sa akin na kumpletuhin ang stub nila (kala kasi nila laklakero pa rin ako ng kape!). And yes, sayang ang freebies ni Starbucks noh!

So I've decided I'll use the Maxicare planner for my office-to-dos and the Starbucks planner for personal stuff ~ dates (ows!), gimmicks (ows ule!), and initial draft of blog entries. Wish ko lang eh magamit ko silang dalawa ng bunggang bungga!

Another Reality Show Fiasco?!?

I am a fan of reality shows, be it from the Kapuso or the Kapamilya station. And as expected, I always have my bets, placing my stakes even during the early parts of the competition. I also wrote before that I have a good passing rate in choosing who the winner will be; but just the same, I also have my lapses. What’s more interesting though is that I tend to over-analyze the results, which I always think was a valid scrutiny.

Here comes another…

Today’s booting-out of Sef Cadayona (of the Selecta Cornetto 20-pesos ad) was to me an unfair decision of the people behind Starstruck 5. I honestly feel that now is not yet the time for this multi-talented star-wanna-be to bid the show adieu. My thoughts…

• It was acceptable that Sef be in the Bottom 3 since the Kiss Flick between him and Rox (forgot her surname) was a bit off, but…
• The other actors in the Kiss Flicks deserve more boos. Nina Kodaka, Steven (surname forgotten as well), Sarah Labahti (did I spell it correctly?) and Ian Batherson were lame kissers and actors must I say.
• To me, Enzo Pineda was on the safe side. He did not falter but he also did not stood out in his kiss flick with Sarah.
• No doubt the good actors were Rocco Nacino, Pierro Vergara, Diva Montelaba and Princess Snell, that’s why they were chosen by no less than Gina Alajar to be paired with Aljur Abrenica and Kris Bernal for the Real-Kiss-Flick challenge.
• The kiss between Princess and Rocco was really the most passionate; thanks to the expertise of Princess (the flick was really showing how good she is as a kisser). No doubt it got the Viewer’s Choice Award for Best Kiss.
• Pierro and Diva’s kiss had the most “kilig” factor ~ parang pang high school.
• It was really clear that Rocco, Pierro, Diva and Princess were the real winners. I had to agree when Rocco and Diva were proclaimed Best Actor and Actress, respectively. Not a single doubt about their performances when paired with Kris and Aljur.
• But lo and behold, when the Bottom 3 was revealed, the trio was Princess, Rox and Sef!
• Now, we needed to ask ~ why was Princess there in the Bottom 3? She was chosen by Gina Alajar and was voted by the audience for the Best Kiss. These should have cemented her status on the safe side already (Starstruck’s scoring is 50% Challenge Score and 50% Text Votes, just an FYI). Confusing, right?
• If Princess was safe (which should really be the case), then who should be on the Bottom 3 instead? Nina or Steven who both lacked the energy during their kiss flick (watching them was like watching a non-rating Koreanovela romance)? Sarah whom Gina Alajar had difficulty directing? Enzo Pineda who has a fan-base already that can give him a solid 50% score on the text votes? OR Ian Batherson whose inclusion on the Bottom 3 again (would be his third time already) means an automatic expulsion from the search?
• Among the 5, my take would be Ian Batherson. I have nothing against the guy, but I felt he did not deliver a good acting in the kiss flick with Sarah. I also thought he has no solid fan-base to vote for him coz if that is the case then he wouldn’t be in the Bottom 3 twice in a row. Remember his “Ako na yata ang Pinakamagandang Lalake” Music Video? It was commended by its own director and I thought he was really good then, but he still landed a spot on the Bottom 3. That made me ask “Is he getting text votes?”
• Text votes wise, I think Nina, Steven, Sarah and Enzo have winning edge over Ian. It would be quite impractical for Starstruck 5 to vote out any of these four. More text votes, more income. Right?
• If it was then Ian in the Bottom 3, an automatic expulsion should have happened. Rox and Sef should have been safe.

Apologies if I again over-analyzed the results of tonight’s Starstruck 5 episode. But for the purpose of impartiality, sticking with the real scores and following the show’s rules, I guess we, the viewers have a BIG say on who should stay or go. After all, the show itself is airing what are the comments of each mentor to each survivor to each challenge, which also are indicative of who amongst them are safe and not. And more than anything else, it is our pennies that we spend for the millions of text votes were giving these star-wanna-bes.

I honestly think that the credibility of some reality shows here in the Philippines is getting questionable. But it was more disappointing to know that the pioneer of this kind of shows here in the Philippines have been tainted as well of this kind of dirty tactics. Calling people from Starstruck 5, prove me wrong!

Ooh by the way, Rocco Nacino is my sure winner. If he won’t win, then I wouldn’t know what to say anymore.

Mine was Generation X...

My dad, Ejay, I and my 5-year old nephew were all busy watching Starstruck 5 when all of a sudden the nephew jumped out of the sofa and said he wanted to stop watching and just go home (they live on the second floor of our two-storey abode). Today’s episode of Starstruck was the survivors’ Kiss Flick where they were challenged to do their first on-screen kiss. Our confused faces forced him to reason, “Kasi tumitigas ang t%*i ko eh.” (Because I’m having a turn on).

Oh my God! What’s happening to these kids’ generation? Now I understand why the alphabet is no longer enough to spell theirs. I never knew that kids his age can now be affected by simple and plain screen kissing!

Must I lend him the DVD copy of the American Pie movies I am now marathon-ing? Whatchathink readers?

A tactic not good...

Testing issues could derail Mayweather-Pacquiao

By Kevin Iole, Yahoo! Sports

Nearly every detail is finalized for Floyd Mayweather Jr. and Manny Pacquiao to fight on March 13 at the MGM Grand Garden Arena in Las Vegas but one. That one detail, though, may kill the fight.

Negotiations are at an impasse over Pacquiao’s failure to agree to random Olympic-style drug testing, said Leonard Ellerbe, the CEO of Mayweather Promotions, on Tuesday.
Pacquiao trainer Freddie Roach said his fighter is willing to comply with strict drug-testing standards, but Roach won’t allow.

Ellerbe said he would not let Mayweather enter the ring unless Pacquiao agreed to it.
Both sides agreed that the drug testing issue is the only hurdle preventing the fight from being finished. Earlier Tuesday, Golden Boy Promotions officially requested March 13 from the Nevada State Athletic Commission to host the show.

“As Floyd’s management, we are insistent that there be a level playing field,” Ellerbe said. “This is in the best interests of the fighters, the fans and the sport. If you want a level playing field, the best way to do it is to have Olympic-style, random drug testing administered by the premier agency in the world, the [United States Anti-Doping Agency].”

Pacquiao promoter Bob Arum said the demand is “absolutely crazy,” done simply to harass Pacquiao, who is squeamish about needles, and is proof that Mayweather doesn’t really want the fight.

Arum said the request has been an unsettled issue since the first day of negotiations last month.
“We’re not going to agree to have Manny give blood in training, because that’s stupid,” Arum said. “Every doctor in the world will tell you that is stupid. He’ll give his blood at the beginning of the year and he’s willing to be urine-tested 24/7, but blood doesn’t show [expletive] and he’s not going to do it.”

In a statement released by his publicist, Mayweather said he is willing to submit to the testing. There was never any suspicion that Pacquiao had ever taken banned substances until earlier this year, when Floyd Mayweather Sr. suggested he was on steroids.

Pacquiao has passed every urine test he’s been given in connection with boxing matches.
“I understand Pacquiao not liking having his blood taken, because frankly I don’t know anyone who really does,” Mayweather said in his statement. “But in a fight of this magnitude, I think it is our responsibility to subject ourselves to sportsmanship at the highest level. I have already agreed to the testing and it is a shame that he is not willing to do the same.
“It leaves me with great doubt as to the level of fairness I would be facing in the ring that night. I hope that this is either some miscommunication or that Manny will change his mind and step up and allow these tests, which were good enough for all these other great athletes, to be performed by USADA.”

Blood tests for illegal drugs and banned substances are not required by the Nevada State Athletic Commission, which would have regulatory control of the bout if it is held in Las Vegas.
In Nevada, a fighter is required to submit to a blood test that screens for HIV and Hepatitis B and C, as well as other blood-borne diseases, as part of the requirement to gain a license.
A license in Nevada is good for one year. In Pacquiao’s case, he received his 2009 license shortly before he fought Ricky Hatton in May. He submitted his blood to the commission between April 5 and April 20, said Keith Kizer, the commission’s executive director.

Kizer said all fighters who fight in Nevada are subject to random urine tests as well as any other medical tests, such as an MRI or a CAT scan, that the commission deems necessary. Arum said Pacquiao is willing to submit to testing by an outside agency but won’t give his blood. Roach said it’s an issue because Mayweather’s side has been insisting Pacquiao give blood as close as 48 hours within the fight.

“We’ll accommodate their requests and do urine testing up the wazoo and we’ll agree to have them done by an outside agency,” Arum said. “Manny has nothing to hide. But he’s not going to give blood because that’s crazy. He’ll do it at the beginning and he’ll do it at the end. That’s how it is done. Ask some former Olympic boxers how many times they give blood.”
Ellerbe said having the testing administered by USADA would quell suspicions about the procedures or the result.

“This is no rooty toot organization,” said Ellerbe, who noted that such testing was accepted by elite athletes such as LeBron James, Kobe Bryant, Michael Phelps and Lance Armstrong.
Roach scoffed at such talk and said it won’t matter to him if the fight is not held.
“I really don’t care, because Manny doesn’t need Floyd Mayweather,” Roach said. “The tests he’s requesting are not commission tests, they’re not boxing tests and this is not an Olympic sport. A urine test is just as qualified as a blood test. [Human growth hormone] is not detected by blood or urine.”

The World Anti-Doping Agency successfully used blood testing at the 2004 Olympics in Athens to test for HGH.

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I'll be signing in again... Hope you missed my writings!

But just the same, I can't promise to be good. I'll still be the biatch that I am!

My Noy or My Chiz?

Disclaimer: This one’s not a political campaign. These are just this writer’s thoughts.

When I was already decided not to vote come May 2010 Presidential Election for the simplest reason that I hated the early campaign ads (and must I say annoying ones) of the two President-Wanna-Bes, Noynoy Aquino declared his candidacy in Club Filipino during the 40th Day of his Mom’s Death. My initial thinking was that he was just forced by the clamor for him to run, especially that Mar Roxas (one of the two wanna-bes I wrote earlier; you know who the other one is) have sacrificed his bid for the country’s highest political seat.

In all honesty, I at first questioned his capability to govern this country ~ his being the son of two national heroes aren’t solid qualifications. Yet day-by-day, I am realizing that more than anyone else who have declared their wanting to be called the Chief Executive, Noynoy is the most noble. In the current political game when we just choose the lesser evil, I must say that the man from Ateneo is indeed the most qualified. His advocacies of liberal democracy and public accountability are winning platforms; the things this ailing nation really need especially now that we are faced with the many issues of corruption, human rights oppression and environmental turmoil.

I am not giving him kind words because I am a Kris Aquino fan. More than anything else, I believe that Noynoy has been living up to the legacy of his parents, and that his political advocacies are the extension of what his parents were not able to finish during their leadership stints.

With that I have decided that come May 2010, I’ll ink the name of the only son of Benigno Aquino and Corazon Cojuangco in my ballot.

But not until another political hero of mine joined the race.

I have always been a fan of Chiz Escudero. In his many interviews that I’ve watched, I simply admire how this UP alumnus gives concrete and direct answers to the many questions, both political and personal, tossed on him. His straightforward and brilliant lines of thoughts are what differentiate him from the many Senators who were just there boiling seats in the Senate. He may be too idealistic, but his zeal towards a good and better nation is simply catching ~ that even perhaps the greediest of men would be much willing to cooperate of attaining, given the opportunity of listening to this man’s impeccable wit.

Chiz was one of the pro-impeachment congressmen who were the prime movers of the impeachment proceedings against PGMA. His words on the questionable leadership of this president were simply astounding ~ "It is the truth that has lost. But the search for the truth does not end today. The president and her allies will always be haunted by questions.”

My brother who’s currently a freshie in a state university has a fondling tale as well about Chiz. In one of the forums he attended, Chiz confidently answered the question, “Why are you so in a hurry to run for the Presidency when you are only on your first term as a Senator?” The crowd applauded his answer, (not in verbatim, apologies) “Bakit hindi pa ngayon? Kung sa susunod pang mga eleksiyon, baka lamunin na din ako ng mabahong sistema ng politika. Ayoko pong maging trapo.” To which I totally agree. We’ve had good and impressive leaders before whose credibility are now questionable, simply because they have allied with their many corrupt predecessors.

Admittedly, I am now torn. Will I go for the heroes’ son or the man whose political rise was described as meteoric?

It could have been much easier for me if Chiz chose to run as Vice President; for I don’t have a choice yet for the next highest post in the Philippines (and perhaps I wouldn’t have a choice at all). All I know now is that I will no longer go back to my first decision of not voting. Now that I have decided to claim my right as a Filipino by voting who our next President will be, I must start to think deliberately. I still have more than half-a-year anyway.

Hmm, what about a toss of coin? Just kidding…

Return Entry on Survivor Philippines Palau

So, Marvin Keiffer has been voted out of Survivor Philippines Palau. How do I feel about it (my Bet for the First Runner Up ending up in the Top 10 instead)? Mixed emotions, of course!

I feel sad because I know that should he stayed a little longer, he will reap wins in the coming challenges. Frustrated because the young boy did not at all try to gain alliances which can strengthen his bid in the game. Betrayed because all 9 of the other castaways voted for him to be out, including his closest friends Echo, Suzuki and Jef.

I’d say I hate how the game is being played. I wouldn’t claim I am righteous to the bone, but it is totally a no-no for me on unfair means of battling and winning. I don’t like how dirty some tactics could be even if I know that is how Survivor is played. Well, taking from the root word of the show’s title simply meant enduring all the tasks and challenges, despite their very limited means and hows. I forgot that in this modern time when technology is already a way of life, survival of the fittest has not been Jurassic yet (and yes, greedy ones are sometimes getting more than what they really deserve!). But my advocacy on gaming remains the same ~ all aces must be played and it should be squarely, fairly and just. No betrayal included, no distrust added.

Who’s next, from my standpoint? Since their basis now in voting out their fellows is strength, then this should be the sequence: Mika, Shaun, Justine, Suzuki, Amanda, Echo, Tara, Charles and then Jef. Jef winning the game? Hell no! In my heart, only Echo or Justine should win. No one else!

By the way, I have to give my claps to Mika. And yes girl, you’re now gaining my abhorrence!

My Thoughts on Survivor Philippines Palau

Tomorrow, we will know who between Justine Ferrer and Cris Bolado will land the final slot in the much-awaited merge of the Survivor Philippines Palau. That is after the build-a-new-shelter-for-the-castaways challenge for the two of them. Well, I really hope it would be Justine. While I do not have anything against Cris, I think Justine deserves it because he/she has been proven his/her strength after beating the five other castaways in Isla Purgatoryo. (Apologies for the dual pronoun, you probably know as well how difficult it is to categorize Justine).

And since in the first season I had my prediction list, it is but fitting that I make one as well on the current castaways. Now while we are still waiting for the Top 10 to be announced, I already have my winners’ list. And here it goes…

My Top Ten is Tara. I guess you would all agree with me on this. Hello, who would be betting for this freak? Wait till tomorrow night comes. You’ll see how demonic this bitch could be. And if you’ll still stake for her to land either the Top 9 or Top 8 slots, then you too is out of your mind!

Ninth slot belongs to Charles. I am liking Charles the last few episodes of the game yet this is not enough for me to put him on a higher notch. He’s not that strong physically and more so, he does not have a strong alliance knowing that the merge will happen soon. He may have Mika now on his side, but I doubt if he still has his ex-Koror mates as allies.

Eighth slot is for Jeff. I know that her blossoming romance with fellow castaway Marvin will boost the show’s ratings, but her physical strength will weaken her chance in the game since the coming challenges will be played individually. And Jeff might be a burden to the tribe if she will stay longer.

Seventh slot is Amanda’s. She plays well. She has strength. She may have alliances. But I don’t see her lasting long in the competition. I feel like she’s on the verge of losing her focus and strength anytime soon, especially that the next challenges would require more stamina. I think there’s inconsistency in her performance.

Shaun will get the sixth slot. I like him as he reminds me of Season 1’s Kiko Rustia ~ righteous, kind, affectionate, protective, leader. But those traits are also his downfalls for these are making him play the game safely. He’s strong, I agree; but compared to the other castaways, Shaun’s vigor falls short of the others.

Mika is my Number 5. I like this girl’s very strong personality. She is a break-away from the typical girl castaway ~ she’s a real fighter, incomparably brave and enormously ferocious. But while she’s the strongest amongst the girls, I think a Top 5 finish is the best she could reach.

The Top 4 is Suzuki. He is the most likeable among the castaways. His joker personality, his friendly aura and his strength would be sufficient to advance him through the competition. I just think though that Zuki has a very weak alliance. He did not connect much to Amanda, Jeff and Shaun when these three joined the Koror tribe, and at this point I am seeing no improvement to this. And his coalition with Echo and Marvin isn’t glued firmly as well.

Justine deserves the Third Spot. Well, having beaten the first four cast-offs are sure proof that this transsexual possesses something in him/her worth our belief. (I didn’t include Vlad in the count since technically they did not really face each other in a challenge). I feel confident that Justine will win some individual challenges which will earn him/her the right to the immunity bracelet. He/She will surely show his/her friendly personality which could be a sure ticket to gain comrades to make him/her stay in the game. But knowing he/she won over the first five cast-offs can also be a make-or-break for him/her ~ he/she may be seen as a strong competitor who can also smell as a threat to the others.

Marvin is my First Runner-Up. This seventeen year old is the strongest amongst all the castaways. Marvin will surely win many immunities, the very same fate JC Tiuseco had in the tail end of the Season 1. I just hope though that Marvin tries to make stronger alliances coz as it is, he does not have much to cement his status as a real contender. He also smells like a threat to the other castaways, so he should learn how to make a little dirty tactics. I can blame it to the age as to how he’s not as manipulative as a real castaway should be, but I hope that he re-evaluates his strategies so he could stay longer.

Echo is my Sole Survivor. She has what it takes to be one ~ strong, friendly, smart, tactical and focused. She could last long as far as physicality is concerned. She could play fair but could sometimes be a little dirty. Part of her tactics is her nice and friendly personality ~ she’s really industrious and very responsible in doing her chores in the tribe. She’s much focused to win the game and no allergies can dampen her spirit. She has a Cinderella story to tell, enough to gain the affection of her fellow castaways. If she’ll be in the Top 2, Echo will win the votes of the other castaways primarily out of compassion and secondarily, out of her ability. If she’ll win, it will definitely change her and her family’s course of life; but if lady luck will not be on her side, I hope there could be some other fairy godmother who’ll grant her wish. GMA 7 and Sponsors, help this lady please!

I can’t say that I am a real Survivor fan for I am not fond of the original and foreign editions. But since I am a Kapuso by heart, I embraced the Survivor Philippines with much gusto and fascination. I may end up not guessing the right sequence of winners but no regrets coz I also wouldn’t win any reward or immunity if I do. But much better, my betting here will not make me lose even a single cent. Fair enough!

Thanks for reading!

The Storm That Was

"We all have sad stories to tell about the Typhoon Ondoy. This is not actually related to the recent typhoon that hit our nation, but my heart feels for the many families who lost their households and their loved ones. May God embrace us all in His Loving Hands."

While “Ondoy” was hitting the metropolis badly last weekend, I was in the hospital nursing my sick sister. She underwent appendectomy on Wednesday, September 23 which really caught all of us in the family very surprised.

The story goes like this…

Monday night, she was complaining of a bad stomachache. That was after she attended a company-required convention in The Heritage Hotel. Tuesday already saw her going to the hospital getting checked by our Lola’s doctor and was advised to take some medications. That very same night, she had difficulty sleeping because of the severe pain which prompted her to ask her friend (who lives with her and my Tita and Lola in our grandparent’s house) to bring her the soonest to the hospital. Off they went despite the unsafe wee hours of the morning; laboratories were done then lo and behold, the doctor confirmed it was appendicitis that’s giving her the stomach pains. Right there and then, we decided she’ll go for the operation. I had to cancel my attendance on a training while my younger brother took his day off from work.

It was really unfortunate for that very same moment, my Dad was confined in another hospital due to complications on his diabetes. It was my Mom who was tasked to nurse him. The original plan was NOT to tell Dad and Mom about my sister’s situation for we’re much concerned of his condition; his blood sugar and pressure has been very erratic since his confinement on Tuesday afternoon, September 22. But after Lola’s persuasion (and because of her drama antics), my Tita was forced to announce the bad news to my parents. Expectedly, Dad’s blood sugar and pressure went bad. Another cause of alarm! I immediately ordered my younger brother to check on Dad and Mom while I stayed in the hospital where my sister was undergoing operation. I instructed him to go since I know that during times like that, my Mom could have the tendency to miss her focus knowing that she herself is also sick. And so I was left with my Tita and my sister’s friend in her hospital room waiting for what appeared to be a tripled six hours! The many times I asked the nurses what’s taking the operation so long, I always get the same answer: “Nasa recovery room na po, pahintay na lang!”

Fortunately, the operation went well…

Thursday, I went to work. In as much as I wanted to take the day off, I simply couldn’t. We had on site a Senior Executive to give us business updates and we also had client visitors. As HR Lead, I had to attend a few meetings with this Senior Executive and present HR Updates on the client visitors. Yes, I went on duty for 24 hours. It’s good that we were given some time to take a nap in the office’s lounge area.

Friday, I went to the hospital where my Dad was confined to process his discharge (praise God!). And again, thanks to his HMO card we did not pay even a single cent on his bills. Immediately after sending Dad and Mom home, I rushed to the second hospital to check on my Sister. Gladly, she was already conscious! She only needed assistance when she’s moving, but was already wide awake. And yes, she was back on her snooty self! Such a freak!

Now, our next goal: for her to defecate so we could go out of the hospital. (We were told it will be the indication that her body systems were well and that the operation did not develop any complications). But the goal was such a heavy task ~ she simply can’t do it! We were even joking we can be volunteers.

Saturday, I woke up late because of the lulling winds and rains (and of course, I had to catch up on my lost sleep). I had no idea how bad the storm was because I was not able to catch the news for advisories. After my usual morning rituals, I readied myself and head to the hospital weathering the strong winds and the heavy rainfall. In the hospital I saw Mom, Dad and Tita taking charge of my brat sister. When I arrived, Tita and I asked Mom and Dad to go home so Dad could rest. A few more hours, my sister ordered my Tita to go home to look after my Lola who was left alone in the house since we’re already hearing some bad news that many areas were flooded already. From the windows of the hospital we could see the water level in the creek nearby slowly rising. Thanks God we were spared from the heavy downpour while inside the hospital; although of course it could be better if we’re at home sleeping sound with our family. Some little trade-offs of course!

We were patiently waiting for her attending physician the whole day but perhaps due to the bad weather, not even his shadow showed up. That was understandable. Good thing that Sister has not developed any complications and did not complain any pain. Late Sunday night when he showed up ~ I was half asleep when he checked my sister ~ and gladly, we heard the best news we’re longing to hear. She could go home. We waited the next morning for him to clean my sister’s wounds and for him to sign our discharge slip. I will no longer mention how much we paid for the hospital bill but it yes hit my and my brothers’ purses badly. No biggie in exchange to the wellness of a dear sister!

Right now, Sister is recuperating at my grandparent’s house. She will be on leave from work for two months and I heard she will have many pending tasks to finish. Good luck to her boss and the person who’ll take her responsibilities for a while. But moreover, good luck to my Tita and Lola they will need to bear with the supercilious attitude of my sister hehehe. I will be sending her some books and DVDs on Monday (my day off) for her to read and watch while on sick leave. That hopefully could help her go through the boredom of staying home doing nothing.

Now what did this whole experience taught me?

First, it only reinforces to me the cliché that the family is your number one refuge during the hard times. When all else fails, your family will remain your strongest shield in the many adversaries that will come along your way.

Second, those who were showing smiles while facing you does not really mean they’re your allies. Need not elaborate, this is self-explanatory.

Third, better be prepared. You better be ready in all emergencies ~ sickness, calamities, etc. Of course there could be no perfect game plan on cases like this, but best if you have your weapons handy at all times ~ money, money and money. I am not saying you should be greedy to focus all your attention in raising money; but yes, someone who saved for the worst will triumph the best!

Lastly, ordeals are way of life. They are there and unchangeable. But what’s good is the fact that no matter how difficult they may be, they could still be manageable. An open mind and an open heart are the sure tools. These two will lead you to the pot of gold!

So long folks! Till next time!

"In My Life"

I watched the movie event of the year yesterday and was happy with it. I wouldn’t say I was totally moved, but it at least exceeded my expectations. The plot was simple yet the characterizations were all superb! Ate Vi was still the actress we admired despite her age and her sagging cheeks. Luis Manzano got a passing grade for a first-timer. And yes, John Lloyd Cruz has cemented his status as the “Most Brilliant Actor of His Generation”. (Well, if we classify Piolo Pascual as JLC’s contemporary then Piolo is still the valedictorian for me; Lloydie is salutatorian with only a slight lose).

I wouldn’t be surprised if the movie would sweep awards come the next awards season. A Best Actress grand slam is not impossible for Ate Vi (though I want Sharon Cuneta, thru her Mano Po, to spoil Ate Vi’s winning streak), Best Supporting Actor or Best New Actor nominations for Luis is not too far from reach (and it’s again no surprise if he’ll grab one trophy), and of course, I’m giving a grand slam Best Actor win for John Lloyd Cruz. His portrayal of his gay character was simply natural ~ from his delivery of lines, facial expressions, movements and gestures. So are we to question his sexuality now? Definitely not! JLC is just one talented actor!

And of course, the much talked about confrontation scene between Ate Vi and John Lloyd was the winning part it made me grip my seat too tight! The scriptwriter was able to craft the best dialogue and put the best words as to how JLC would make Ate Vi realize her faults as a mother. It was also an enlightenment on the complexity of a gay relationship no matter how odd this may sound to many ~ the sacrifices made, the trust and loyalty bestowed and the unconditional love given. And of course, I was too surprised in JLC’s guts to slap Ate Vi in the face and drag her to sit. Oh come on! It’s no ordinary for a younger actor (or actress for that matter) to have the courage to smack a bigger and more mature star. That requires brilliance, and brilliant JLC was!

But in all honesty, I couldn’t see the movie as a would-be iconic and classic one. It was simply beautiful and that ends it. Its plot and its character may be forgotten. But at this time when only indies offer us the best and out-of-the-box movies that could reap awards here and abroad, it is comforting to know that Filipino directors, actors, scriptwriters and movie producers could still offer something as big as “In My Life”.

Ohh by the way, let’s all look forward to Sharon Cuneta’s Mano Po. And yes, now knocking on Ate Guy to stage a comeback.

Kung taga-GMA ako...

Okay, balik ako sa pagiging Kapuso matapos kong magpakaalibugha ng ilang buwan. Anong magagawa eh sa ayaw ko talaga sa isang nagrereyna-reynahan sa GMA. Buti na lang at hindi nag-rate ang huling show niya! Ewan ko na lang etong susunod. Basta ang sure, hindi pa din ako manunuod. Respeto ko kay Angel Locsin (ang aking peborit!), hindi ko masisikmurang panuorin ang kaniyang paglunok ng bato. Kahit pa nga ang babaeng ahas niya eh si Iwa Moto (na peborit din!). Ngayon kung di mo pa gets sinasabi ko, sus mio naman! Itanong mo kay Fulgoso ha? Pwede ding kay Karylle!

I heard na may mga foreign shows na naman na ire-remake ang GMA. Sa tradisyon ng Kim Sam Soon (at dahil sa rimarim eh hindi ko babanggitin yun naunang ni-remake ng GMA), ibabalik ng GMA ang ilang programang nagtala ng matataas na ratings. At dahil feel kong magpaka – executive ng GMA, eto mga suggestions ko:

Tamang ibalik ang Starstruck! Pero sana lang ang manalo eh yun may talent talaga. Yun bang tipong hindi lang sa tests ng jury papasa. Yun tipong kakayanin ang greatest challenge, sabi nga ni Joey De Leon ~ ang test of staying power.

At siyempre, sa August na babalik ang Survivor. Excited ako dito! At for sure, mapupuyat na naman ako! Okay lang na si Paolo Bediones pa din ang host ~ sa sobrang galing niya, wala nang pwede pa maghost ng show na yun!

Tama ding i-freeze na ang Pinoy Idol. Hindi pa kasi pwede sa Pinoy ang text voting lang ang determinant ng winner for a reality show! Hello! Nasan ba naman si Gretchen Espina. Huling panood ko ng SOP nun Linggo, mukha siyang pokpok na bakla dun sa production number nila ni Jennylyn Mercado (na isang nahirapan na ding pabanguhin ang pangalan niya matapos mabuntis!). At take note, Pinoy Idol siya di ba? Pero bakit nag-lip synch lang siya? Naknamputsa!

Tama ding nandiyan ang Are You the Next Big Star. Bakit? Siyempre naman, si Regine ang host eh! Pero question lang ~ sino ba ang stylist nila? Bakit mukhang kinakawawa ang mga babae? Ang papangit ng mga styling ng damit. Yun mga lalake ang mukhang ginagastusan ang packaging at styling. Well, ayoko na magsalita. Kasi din naman, mukha ding mas marketable ang mga lalaking contestants nila. Bets ko: Geoff Taylor sa lalake, Frenchessca (tama ba spelling?) Farr sa babae. Bakit? Sila ang mas madaling ibenta ~ may boses na, may looks pa!

May isang bubuwit na nagsabing bading daw si Alex Castro. Nun makita namin sila (Top 16) sa SOP, si Alex ang may okay na people skills ~ bati ng bati and asking the studio viewers for support sa kaniya at sa show. Bihasa kasi konsehal pala sa Bulacan.

Si Rosalinda eh talaga namang nakakabaliw! Pasado si Carla Abellana – bago pa lang, marunong nang umarte. Si Geoff Eigenman, pasado din. Pinakapasado – si Katrina Halili (clap! clap!). Ngayon pa lang inis na inis na ako kay Fedra! Effective talaga si Kat. At siya lang ang pwedeng mag-Fedra! OA nga lang ng konti si Sheryl Cruz as Valeria. Sabagay noon pa man, OA na umarte si Sheryl di ba? Si Roderick Paulate, si Sheena Halili eh maganda ding kasama sa show. Cute ang mga deliveries nila sa mga roles nila.

Ang Zorro? Hmmm, di ba nga hindi ako fan ni Richard? So pass ako dito!

Nakakaadik namang tunay ang Adik sa Iyo. Naku-cutean ako sa loveteam ni Jolina at Marvin (dati akong nasusuka sa kanila). Si Dennis Trillo eh magaling mag-ala eh. Hanggang doon na lang ha – hindi din niya kasi ako fan. Ayoko ng mahilig mag-deny ng babae (Carlene and then Cristine). At ang pinakawagi sa akin – si Jennica Garcia. Kim Sam Soon palang, tumbling na ako sa batang yan! Mapa-drama, comedy, pasok sa akin si Jennica! Kudos to GMA na siya ang inilagay sa show.

Ang pagpasok ni Uge sa Adik sa Iyo eh isang kaabang-abang. Susko! Uge + John Lapus = kabag sa kakatawa! Though si John Lapus medyo parang kulang ang comic acts sa Adik. Sana siya na lang yun sa role ni Iwa Moto tapos si Iwa Moto yun sa role ni John. Pero siyempre mas gusto ni John ang role niya ngayon, kasi madalas niya kaeksena ang crush niyang si Dennis Trillo.

Balikan natin si Jennica Garcia ha. Gusto kong siya ang gumawa ng Full House. I heard may choice na daw ang GMA kung sino, hindi pa lang nila nirereveal kung sino. Fingers crossed, si Jennica yun. Wala lang, feeling ko siya ang tama para sa role na yun. Pag siya ang naging bidang babae sa Full House, baka mahila niya ako para maging fan ni Richard Gutierrez.

Yun Jodi daw wala pang napipili ang GMA. Suggestions ko: Heart Evangelista o Jennylyn Mercado. Yun Eunice - pwede na dun si Cristine Reyes tutal di ba gusto niya bumalik sa Kapuso?

Balita ko ang original na dapat daw gagawin ng GMA eh Coffee Prince para kay Dennis at Jennica. Pero naisipan nilang gumawa ng original story hence Adik sa Iyo was conceptualized. Tama lang naman na move. Kasi kaaliw talaga ang Adik sa Iyo. Now, sino ngayon ang gagawa ng Coffee Prince kung ire-remake? Hmmm, selfish na kung selfish... si Jennica ule, siya lang ang naiisip ko. Yun bidang lalake, di na pwede si Dennis dun. Bakit? Kasi may Pauleen Luna na si Dennis. Di naman bagay kay Pauleen ang role ng bidang babae sa Coffee Prince. Though hindi malayong mag-invest ang GMA kay Dennis at Pauleen lalo na't sila na daw ngayon. Well, kung ganun nga , mag DRAMARAMA sa HAPON na lang sina Pauleen at Dennis. Tutal dun naman ang market ni Dennis, saka hilaw naman ata kung mag-primetime si Pauleen.

Kung si Jennica pa din magreremake ng Coffee Prince, sino babagay na ipartner sa kaniya? Hmmm, hindi na si Mart Escudero. Di na sila bagay. I think, pwede kay Jennica si JC De Vera. Wala lang, try lang. Feeling ko naman kakagatin din sila ng madlang people.

Now kung magsasabay ang Full House at Coffee Prince at isa lang ang gagawin ni Jennica, I would suggest na gawin niya ang Full House. Okay, aminado akong di ako fan ni Richard pero aamin na din akong kung ipapartner si Jennica kay Richard, mas lalong sisikat si Jennica.

Kung ganon, sino naman ang suggestion ko for Coffee Prince? Si JC De Vera ang bida di ba? Pwede na si Heart Evangelista din. Pwede din si Rhian Ramos (bring back the La Lola tagalized tandem... teka nakalimutan ko ito banggitin kanina ah!).

Eh pano kung magjo-Jodi nga si Heart at papartner kay Dingdong na Cholo sa Stairway to Heaven? Well, si Rhian Ramos na nga. Ewan, tingin ko hindi bagay kay Jennylyn Mercado yun role sa Coffee Prince. At siyempre, hindi din pwede si Yasmien Kurdi noh! Si Yasmien, mag DRAMARAMA na lang uli (yun eh kung bibigyan siya ng project ng GMA ule).

Teka, asan na si Sunshine Dizon at Izza Calzado? Wouldn't they fit in the Stairway to Heaven's Jodi role? Sagot ko: pwede. Kaso aminin na natin, hindi na sila appealing for primetime eh. Yun last show nila, hindi masyado nag-rate. Magagaling sila pero iba na kasi ang market ngayon eh. Siguro mag SRO na lang ule sila (yun once a week lang na drama series).

And speaking of marketability, nakakabiglang may market si Kris Bernal at Aljur Abrenica sa primetime. Minsan ko lang napapanuod yun show nila (pag Lunes ng early evening at gising ako o hindi nagpe-facebook). Balita ko may launching movie na sila. Well again, nabigla ako. Ewan, hindi din ako fan ni Kris eh. Sabi nga ng tita ko, kamukha daw ni Jessa Zaragosa at mukha daw monay (nasa lahi ata talaga namin ang pagiging mean). Si Aljur, if not for his resemblance to my youngest brother, hindi ko din papansinin si Aljur. Kasi nun Starstruck days nila, wala akong gusto sa kanilang lahat hehehe. Si Steff Prescott kasi ang bet ko.

Sino si Steff Prescott? Pwede ba siya sa mga shows na ire-remake? Hindi ang sagot ko. Hilaw pa si Steff. Bigyan na lang muna ng DRAMARAMA. Besides, nag-aaral ata ang bata.

Si Rich Asuncion? Well, matapos ang Bb. Pilipinas, nawalan ako ng gana sa kaniya. Hindi ko akalain na ganun pala ang intellect level ng lola (ayan, mean na naman ako!).

Balita ko si Glaiza De Castro daw eh igu-groom din? Pero hindi siya pwede sa mga ire-remake na shows. Pwede siya pero pang-supporting lang.

Si Sheena Halili magbida? Hindi pa din. Comic lang si Sheena pero I think hindi pa siya pwedeng magbida. For me, siya ang batang Eugene Domingo.

Si Chariss Solomon? Okay, after Sheena pwede na siya.

Si Jackie Rice? Sino yun?

Si Ryza Cenon? Ah yun Abril sa Rosalinda? Dapat ata maligayahan na tayo at siya ang naging Abril sa Rosalinda, enough exposure na yun!

Si Isabel Oli? Balita ko dapat nasa Narda din, nag-back out daw dahil sa maysakit ang tatay. May chikang ayaw lang daw makasama si Nadine Samonte at ang ex niyang si Paolo Contis. Tama lang naman, I think! Unahin ang ama. Besides, mas magandang wag na siya sumali sa Narda. Yoko nga kasi sa bida. Pero lilinawin ko, hindi din ako fan ni Isabel ha!

Parang nahahabaan na ko sa blog ko. Nag-feeling na naman ako! Eh hindi naman ako part ng casting crew ng GMA. Well, ang akin eh suggestions lang naman. Kung tutumpak ang mga suggestions ko sa pipiliin ng GMA for their upcoming shows, eh di salamat.

Oops, hirit lang. Hindi pa lubos na naaalis ang pagkaalibugha ko. Peborit ko pa din kasi si Angel Locsin eh. Saka magagaling kasi ang nasa-Tayong Dalawa. I would say na okay na din yun Tatlong Bida, pero ang pinakamagagaling dun eh yun support cast. Si Cherry Pie, si Agot, si Coco, si Gina Parreño, si Alessandra de Rossi at si Jodi Sta. Maria.

Eh ano naman masasabi ko sa Lovers in Paris? Sige ipromote na may ligawan sina Piolo at KC. Kailangan eh.

Oh siya, mahaba na talaga! Pagod na din ang mga kamay ko!

Pwede po bang bumalik?

Sige, aamin na ako. Guilty as charged, may bago akong kinaaadikan. Malaki-laki na din naman kasi ang investment ko sa bago kong kinahuhumalingan ngayon. At saka madami na din kasi akong napasayang tao dun ~ malapit na silang mag-bente mil.

Una, udyok lang ng mga kasama ko sa team, kala ko naman kasi hindi ako malululong. Ang siste, masarap pala, nakaka-high ng feeling! Pati yun tunog niya, talagang nakaka-enjoy! Yun ang lullabye ko pag matutulog pagkakain ng tanghalian; o di kaya naman matapos kong lantakan ang turong ibinebenta ni Ate Alma. Ang maganda kasi, hindi naman kailangang tutok ako ng bonggang bongga. Gagana at gagana siya basta sisilipin ko lang kung ano nangyayari sa kaniya.

Pati pala pagsasaka pinasok ko na din ngayon. Pero siyempre, hindi pa din ako bihasa. Kahit pala laki ako sa bukid hindi din ganun kadali. Palibhasa naman, hindi din ako nasanay na magtanim. Malay ko ba sa pagbubungkal ng lupa. At asa kang hahawak ako ng kalaykay at pala para magbungkal ng lupang taniman, neknek mo! Pero ngayon, inaaral na din. Masaya din pala ~ lalo na pag gagatasan mo na yun baka at kukunin mo na yun itlog ng manok! Sabay pitas ng kamatis, patani, talong at kung anik-anik pa sa taniman. Pati nga prutas na cherry eh! Yes, cherry! Yeah man, you got it right! Cherry Fruit!

Hahaha, tama! Adik ako sa Facebook ngayon. Kaya nawala ako! Kasi ba naman masayang mag-Restaurant City. Pati Farmville nakakaaliw. Barn Buddy pwede na din, kaso may mga nagnanakaw ng tanim ko hehehe. At ang lakas ng loob na umamin sa aking ninakaw niya ang pananim ko! Ikaw Tin ha! Komo masaya ang lovelife mo, pati yun barn buddy ko pinanghihimasukan mo!

Oh sige ita-try ko bumalik. Sana araw-araw makasulat ako... kahit hindi muna matino. Turete din kasi ang utak ko ngayon. Dami iniisip, dami gusto gawin. Umiiral ang topak baga. Alam ko, malamang bugbog-sarado ako sa mga kaibigan ko sa Sabado. Lalo na kay Doctora! Baka turukan ako nun ng anaesthesia (tama ba spelling ko?).

Sige pag sinipag ako bukas, sulat ko yun tsismisan ng mga kasakay ko sa service namin araw-araw. Minsan din kasi, tingin ko worth it na isulat. Tamad lang talaga.

Oh siya, mag-aani muna ako ng patani! Babu!

I got my AKO MISMO Dog Tag!

from http://www.akomismo.org/

It is a movement where you can show your patriotism and compassion, and make these traits infectious.

It’s about action that eradicates hopelessness in every Filipino.

How hard will this be to accomplish? Well that will be entirely up to you.In AKO MISMO you get to choose the cause you wish to pursue. No cause is too small as long as it is a noble one. All we ask is that you make a pledge to do it.

You yourself can pledge anything: from teaching English to your yaya’s kid, to making sure that your barangay is dengue-free.

Or make a pledge to do your part in ending corruption, prostitution, illegal drugs or the inhumane treatment of animals. The choice is yours.

No matter how small, as long as you pledge that you yourself will take action, it’s sure to make a big difference.

Giving more hope for Filipinos to stop merely surviving, and start living. And it starts with you.

MISMO yan.
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And yes, I got my dog tag already. I'd like to thank my officemate Niok for getting the tags for me and my friend Grace. Through him I did not need to line up in the long stretch as to where this tag is sold (and yes, I didn't watch the patriotism concert yesterday in The Fort).

Truth is, I can no longer recall what was the commitment I previously posted in the akomismo website. I registered a few weeks back and have not checked the site again (except today when I extracted the info above). As it is, the site is not elaborate you can't find updates like the ones you usually find in your Friendster, Facebook and Multiply websites. And yes, the akomismo.org is not really a networking site. But true to its ideals of "pagkilos para sa bayan", the site has mentioned a few partner organizations the akomismo.org members could choose to help in bringing changes, big or small, for this country. And I think it's high time that all Filipinos, here and abroad, should make their AKO MISMO pledges ~ ngayon na ang tamang panahon upang lahat tayo ay kumilos para sa bayan natin!

So what are you waiting for, sign up now! Visit http://www.akomismo.org/ for more details.

Happy Weekend!

Today’s the Philippine Independence Day, a non-working holiday here in the Philippines, yet I am here in the office spending some 8-9 hours of work again. I could have been out this day (or tomorrow – June 13 – to offset) but the choice is not mine for now ~ I would have to be here for a certain information campaign that I should deliver myself. Being here during days when offices are closed and people are having some good times out has been pretty customary. I still feel homey though despite the non-presence of Mom and Dad, my sometimes pesky nephews and niece, and of course, my ever galling siblings! Since this has been a normal cycle for me and my officemates, their presence seem to compensate my craving to the laughs of my very own family (at home, times like this are bonding time). And yes, I would have to join my ever-beloved officemates in sacrificing the should-be-day-off in the service of our client. Speak about work dedication!

Good thing though, time runs too fast and the half of the day is over as I am writing this. In a few more hours, I’ll be home sweet home! Ought to get some good rest as a relaxing weekend awaits me. One more day and I could tuck myself in my room to finish reading the Twilight Book ~ my second take. Of course, reading the New Moon Book is sure to follow; I need to refresh my vampire knowledge since in a few more months the second part of the saga will be shown in theatres. I’ve seen the trailer of New Moon and it stirred my excitement (here comes some violent reactions from people who thinks that the second movie was also low-budgeted, like the first). I could sense the Team Edward-Team Jacob battle gearing up once more! Hehehe, this time around, I’ll be in support of the wolf. Dunno, guess I just want to be with the side of the wolves on this one.

For now, happy weekend everyone! See yah some other time!

Ang Pagbabalik

Ang hirap bumalik… para akong nanganganay eh naknampucha, as if naman pwede akong manganak!

Ang tagal tagal ko ding nawala sa sirkulasyon. Pumurol na nga ata ang lapis ko eh. O pwede ding tinamad lang talaga ako ng bonggang-bongga at dinedma ang napakaraming pangyayaring pwede ko namang isulat. May istoryang boksing, may kasalan, may buntisan, may outing, at siyempre may eskandalo. Meron ding mga bagay-bagay na araw-araw kong ikinakainis gaya ng palipat-lipat na sakayan namin ng bus (paging Calamba Traffic Management Office ~ mag-ayus-ayos naman po sana tayo!)… siyempre pa, habang naiinis ako gumagana ang utak ko noon. Kung naisulat ko agad ang pagkainis ko, malamang hindi nablangko ang pahina ng blog ko ng matagal. Naman kasi eh, kung bakit kailan nagririgodon ang sentido ko at naglalangis, siya namang kawalan ko ng papel at lalong kalayo ko sa harap ng computer!

Sa mga isyung nabanggit ko sa taas, madami-dami din akong masasabi. Una, oo ~ Pilipino ang lahi ko! Nakisigaw, nakipalakpak at nakipaghuntahan din ako ng tungkol sa kwentong boksing na pucha, mas matagal pa ata ang itinagal ko sa kubeta para tumae! Sa kamalas-malasan pa, sasaglit lang nagzero crime rate ang Pilipinas noon, hindi pa nga ata! Humihina na ata si Pacman... yun na nga lang ang powers niya (ang magpawala ng krimen sa bansa), hindi pa niya tinagal-tagalan. Ngayon, pano pa siya magpupulitika niyan? Pag nagkataon, kung wala na siya sa boxing, baka ang krimen sa bansa lumobong parang yun pagpapasa lang namin dine sa opisina ng ubo at sipon sa mga katabi namin. Well, siyempre ibang scenario na rin kung sakaling sa Kongreso na lang manuntok si Pacman, out of habit baga. Basta ang rekomendasyon ko na lang, kung sakali’t mananalo nga si Pacquiao eh gawin na lang siyang props sa Kongreso. Ang hindi matinong congressman – yun mga natutulog lang sa sesyon – umbagin niya! Tingnan ko lang! Wag na lang siyang gagawa ng batas ha! Kasi nga, you know…

Ooops, masingit lang pala - hindi ko gusto yun tubig na ineendorse niya – kailangan ata si Pacman mismo ang magbukas. Naknampucha sa higpit!

Kwentong kasalan? Oo nga, tapos na yung kasalang pinaghostan ko. Well, ano bang masasabi ko eh di enjoy naman… para na naman akong nakainom ng tubig na may kiti-kiti habang naghohost ako! Energy to the highest level! Partida ~ inuubo at sinisipon ako mga dalawang araw bago yung kasalan na yun ha! Well, sa inyo King and Chiqui – mabuhay kayo! Harinawa’y masundan na nga si David!

Buntisan? Hala! Ayoko magsalita!

Outing? Eh ano pa nga ba eh di nagtampisaw ang mga utaw dine sa napakainit na tubig ng Splash Mountain sa Los Baños. At siyempre eh humalakhak ng bonggang bongga sa mga gandanghari ng opisina! Tulo lahat ng pwede tumulo sa kakatawa!

At ang huli – eskandalo! Ang sa akin lang, para nang circus ang buong kwento! Lahat biktima, lahat nababoy, lahat inosente! Pucha! Sinong may sala aber? Basta ako naniniwalang biktima yun babaeng nakunan ng video ~ saan mo man dalhin yan, babae yan! Igagalang dapat! Hindi kukunan ng malalaswang video habang nagpapakasawa ka sa katawan niya! Yun mga nagsasabi namang wala silang alam sa pagkalat ng video, neknek niyo! Eh ayan at kalat na, kayu-kayo lang ang may hawak nun laptop at ng hard disk, wala kayo alam? Naknampucha! Ano yun himalang basta na lang lumitaw sa internet at sa bangketa? Naalala ko nun gabing lumabas yan sa internet, pinanood kagad namin dine sa opisina. Pero tamaan man ako ng kidlat, hindi ko po ikinalat hahaha. Hindi ko na nga din pinanood ule... pati yun sex video kasama ng doctor ang dati niyang jowang model na ngayon ng modess. Artista ako, aanhin ko naman yun ~ respeto na lang din sa kapwa ko artista, joke!

At siyempre kay Doctor Maniac, ano pa bang sasabihin ko sa iyo kundi wehehehe... enjoy ka sa limelight noh? Sayang ka! May itsura ka pa naman at may magandang titulo, tinarantado mo lang ang sarili mo! Una pa lang duda na ako sa pagpatol mo sa doktorang iyon eh! Eh di ngayon lumabas lahat ng nahuthot mo sa kaniya... condo, laptop, business trips, etcetera etcetera. Buti nga at nabuhusan ka ng tubig! Buti nga at binansagan kang Pambansang Maniac! Kulang pa ata yun sa lahat ng katarantaduhang ginawa mo! Pero sabi ko nga, enjoy ka naman ata sa limelight eh. Sikat ka! Lahat na lang ng opisina ng gobyerno gusto kang imbestigahan, sabay kilig ng mga empleyadong babae roon pag ikaw ay bumibisita ~ hindi makapagpigil sa makalaglag-panty mong itsura. Ang mga Pinay nga naman, basta pogi! Sabi mo pa, blame the sin, not the sinner! Pucha… so ibeblame namin ang pagpapakita mo ng lawit mo sa apatnapung video mo sa iba’t ibang babae? At kung di ka din ba naman isang hayok! Magpiyesta ba sa sarili mong sex video? Maintindihan ko pa kung may collection ka ng sex video ng ibang tao; pero sarili mong video? Aba… kakaiba ata yun ah! Ngayon lang ata ako nakarinig non! Innocent asking lang ha – nalilibugan ka ba pag nakikita mo ang sarili mo sa video? Kung yes ang sagot mo, tsk tsk! May sakit ka nga!

At siyempre meron tayong mga Best Supporting Roles sa circus! Si Senador na wow! Napakalinis, andami namang kabit! Ang Best Supporting Actress ~ si Nanay ni Maniac Doctor siyempre! Ikaw ba naman ang humawak ng crucifix at umupo sa harap ng Sto. Niño habang nagbibintang ng kasalanan ng anak mo sa ibang tao ~ winner talaga! Sinasabi ko na nga ba’t ang magandang launching vehicle para kay Pokwang eh hindi ang Aling Dionesia Life Story!

Hayyyy buhay. Basta, mahirap bumalik! Sa sobrang hirap bumalik, pura mura’t panlalait na lang ang ginawa ko sa blog entry na ito! Yoko na nga! Manuod na lang ako ng rally sa Ayala Avenue... CON-ASS naman!

OHHH Hindi!!!

May 30 na ngayon... at ngayon ko lang nalamang wala pala akong blog entry ng May???

Anong nangyari???

Pucha... pramis, kailangan ko bumawi...

American Idol Season 8 ~ Lambert vs. Allen

To say that I am a fan is somewhat an understatement. Even if I didn’t watch the first two seasons and got curious only when Jasmine Trias and Camille Velasco joined the third run (call it nationalism as I was then so much into Jasmine) and I also failed to watch the whole of Seasons 4 and 5, I still would proclaim myself an aficionado of this singing show. Simon Cowell to me is the most credible, Paula Abdul is the lamest while Randy Jackson is just another jury in the table. The addition of Kara DioGuardi is a plain addition; I am yet to see if she’s credible or not, sorry! Of course, Ryan Seacrest has been delivering the goods so well for the past seven and the current seasons, even if I’m getting bored already of his usual wardrobe, i.e. the same combination of black coat, black pants, white long sleeves and his black tie.

Season 6 started my being hooked to the show. I knew from the very beginning that Jordin Sparks would win. I dunno, but I predicted that she’ll sing the winning piece on Season 6’s final episode. Season 7 also saw me super hooked with David Cook; when I saw his ‘Always Be My Baby’, his ‘Billie Jean’, his ‘So Happy Together’, I knew that Cook will rule despite the popularity of his fellow David, the Archuleta, who I also predicted would be Cook’s final opponent. Well, this is the proof of my good record in predicting winners of reality shows, local or international, modesty aside.

For the current season, I have long wanted to write my prediction list but couldn’t find time to take my seat and do it. Good now that there are only 5 contestants left, my betting would be a little easier. Yes, I’ve seen the exits of Lil Rounds and Anoop Desai at the show’s end last Wednesday. Lil because my belief in her subsided gradually (I thought she was a great contender) and Anoop because I think this competition isn’t for him. While he has his good moments, he also had his lows. Despite his efforts to give good performances, Americans still don’t vote him much (proof was his being in the Bottom 3 for the past 2-3 weeks). His mediocre performance last Wednesday was the clear sign; it’s adieu for Anoop. Matt Giraud should be really thankful of the ‘save’ made by the judges… if not for that, there should only be one leaving yesterday and by all means it should be Lil Rounds. Anoop could have sung one more song.

And now going back to the remaining five in the competition, my in-depth analyses…

Adam Lambert is the strongest. Since Day 1 that I’ve seen this guy (or gay?), he wowed me already. Okay, there is the question of his sexual orientation but let’s face it, of all the Idol contestants, it’s Adam who’s delivering good performances so far. His version of ‘Black or White’ was simply astonishing! His ‘Mad World’ was really an OMG! His ballad version of the Disco song ‘If I Can’t Have You’ was appallingly crazy! Now, tell me, who amongst the five remaining contenders could be more flexible with his/her vocal range, could own the rostrum as if he or she is staging his/her concert? And of course, to be an EMO-tic performer one second and a clean handsome guy (or gay) on another? Only Adam Lambert could do these spices on the show! His best placement – The Title or Top 2. It would take a lot for me to believe if he’ll place third. Hello, that can’t be!

Kris Allen is the most lovable contender. Who wouldn’t like this guy’s charm? I also remember how he has been so helpful to the contestants during the Hollywood week; when he’ll take his time helping his fellow contestants rehearsing by playing his guitar for them, even if it meant that he wouldn’t be able to practice his own song. His ‘Man in the Mirror’ is my favorite and his ‘To Make You Feel My Love’ was really hair-raising! My only issue with Kris is his consistency on his performance. I didn’t like his take on this song during the “Year They Were Born Theme” (see how forgettable this performance could be!). His best placement – The Title or Top 2; if he’ll win the title I wouldn’t really have an issue but I am leaning more on him ending as the runner-up to Adam Lambert. I bet though that Kris would be a famous runner-up like his predecessors, with albums and hits left and right.

Danny Gokey is initially my bet for the title. I was saddened by his story; weeks before his Idol audition his wife died of a congenital heart disease. His take on ‘Jesus, Take the Wheel’ was really good. His ‘Endless Love’ was also a fave. His ‘September’ was really good. But he was not able to sustain my faith on him – Number 2 or Number 3, that’s the best placement. Danny is good, but for me, he lacks star appeal.

Allison Iraheta to me is just another contestant. I didn’t like her in the beginning and she’s not yet earning my wow till this time. I know that she’s been doing great for the past weeks, but these aren’t enough for her to gain my vote. Best placement: Top 4 or 5. That’s it!

Matt Giraud is a good pianist (hehehe, okay he’s a singer!). His problem is consistency… I know that he has wide vocal range; he could be a Michael Buble or a Justin Timberlake as the judges said and I agree to that. But that ends my belief on him ~ sorry, but I am not seeing him staying another one-two weeks. That said, he’ll end up in Top 4 or 5 for me.

Now, these observations were only based on the way I view these five contenders on their past and the most recent performances. I couldn’t really say what will happen in the remaining weeks. Matt or Allison may pull in a big surprise and that may turn the table around on the judges’ comments and how America would decide their 8th American Idol’s fate. But for me, the competition is now on its finale. Lambert vs. Allen; I’m now resting my case!

100th Entry - on Hosting a Wedding Reception for the Third Time

I recently received an invitation to host another wedding reception. This time around, for someone I barely know and who just saw in my Friendster account that I am doing hosting jobs (okay okay, she’s my Tito Jet’s goddaughter so we’re somewhat connected).

I was really surprised to receive the invitation. I had to strictly follow my Tita Onie and Tito Jet’s instruction to block my calendar for May 22. Getting the text message from them, I had an instant panic attack! I have to admit, I am not yet a pro in hosting weddings. I hosted many debut parties of friends before. I also hosted many parties and activities in the office to the point that the employees are already complaining of seeing me holding the microphone again and again. But weddings? I only hosted twice and these are for my bride friends… and basically, we had no themes, no strict guidelines. I just capitalized in my ‘personal bond’ with them and presto, the show has to go on ~ no scripts, no expectations, no ‘super formal’ delivery of lines. I am just the usual, candid and wacky Ady who’s doing my unfulfilled childhood ambition.

I know though that a wedding is a wedding – it is a formal gathering of family and friends who are witnessing and celebrating the union of two people. It only calls for a very modest way of delivering the program flow ~ and that meant, I would have to deviate from my deviant norm. (Huh, how’s that?). And for this particular one, there were many thoughts that went on with my mind ~ How will I do this if I haven’t known (or even seen) the bride and the groom personally? (They are both out of the country). Should I be super formal or a little composed? Will the guests like my hosting since I heard that their majority would be the friends of the bride’s family who are members of a local rotary club? ~ all these questions make my mind go crazy! And since it’s giving me some nerve wracks I would have to sit and really cogitate. Organize. Plan. Take notes. Recall the many weddings I have attended and muse over the reception programs. Ahhh, the more that I am getting anxious!

Good thing that a friend showed me a questionnaire for wedding receptions ~ I customized it and e-mailed to the bride-to-be. I am now just waiting for the filled-up questionnaire and from there, start conceptualizing the program. Of course, I am also scheduled to meet the bride when she goes back to Manila on the first week of May ~ in that meeting, we ought to finalize the program flow and events.

Admittedly, even if I am nervous about this wedding I am also thrilled to do my part as the reception host. I feel like I am slowly realizing a childhood dream. Yes, I always wanted to do hosting and dreamt of having my talk or my travel show. I am an attention-whore; I love it when people listen to what I say. I don’t mind if the dialogues I am to deliver would be influential, informative or whatever ~ I just love to talk and that’s innate with me. And through these many events, activities, programs and wedding receptions that I am hosting, I know that I am honing my craft and preparing myself to the many others of these sorts that I will do in the future (paramdam na ito, mura lang po ang serbisyo ko!). For now, I am relishing the anxiety and the thrills ~ the added garnish to my would-be specialty. Okay Chiqui, send the questionnaire! J

Presenting... BOJO

Since I always mention the name Bojo and perhaps you're really so curious as to who my latest constant buddy is, I think this is the perfect timing to introduce him.

Ladies and Gentlement, presenting... my baby, BOJO, a more-than-three-months old Shih Tzu puppy

This is Bojo on his first few days (he was born on January 05, 2009); taken by his original owner.

These are his pics on the day I got him. Photo taken by my officemate Abby

Bojo on his 3rd Month... after his deworming. Vet is Dr. Marco Reyes of Hayop Kalinga in Crossing, Calamba ~ good and nice vet actually.

His latest picture... taken on March 20, 2009 inside our room. Yes, he sleeps inside my room.

Riding on Pacquiaos' Current Predicament

Last night was a rare occurrence when we as siblings were seated in our living room. There was my eldest sister and her three kids, my eldest brother, me and my Bojo, Jay-Ar and Ejay. Ave was not there since she was living with our Aunt and Lola in a separate house. Mom and Dad were out for their praying meeting with their co-Couples for Christ.

Though we were gathered altogether we were all pre-occupied of our different activities ~ Ate was attending to her kids, Kuya was watching the news, I was playing with Bojo, Jay-Ar was busy texting someone and Ejay was taking his early dinner. At one point though we had a unified glance in our television set ~ the news was about the alleged transfer of Manny Pacquiao to ABS-CBN from GMA 7. Mel Tiangco was anchoring the statement of GMA 7 on this alleged transfer.

Immediately after the news, my eldest bro said “Hala, lagot ka Pacquiao!”. I replied on his statement saying that “Yes, lagot si Pacquiao. Call it mean, but I want him to lose his fight with Hatton ~ I don’t want to give him a graceful exit in the boxing world with all these things that’s going on with him” (I actually just repeated my earlier statements to my team members in the office and my dear friend Yeth in our dinner date).

My statement is harsh I know but I thought this is better said (or written). I don’t have anything against Pacquiao. I am actually a fan; I regularly watch his fights cheering for him and I believe that he has brought so much pride to our country in winning all his bouts. I love his success story as a poor guy who earned his niche in the sports he is very talented of. However, I can’t hide my dismay as to how his winnings, his much-enjoyed fame and his countless moneys have changed his and his family’s lifestyle and habits. I kept on shaking my head when the 1M -worth baptism of his youngest child was covered by media, complete with all the personalities from showbiz and politics worlds as the child’s godparents (How many were they in total? Sorry, I forgot). I can’t help but utter my “tsk tsk” when his wife was interviewed about her shopping experience in Hollywood and it even came to a point that all her outfits were priced. Double the “tsk tsk” when she broadcasted her plastic surgeries done by the most controversial beauty surgeon in the country (need not mention, you know who she is!).

I know that there’s nothing wrong in reaping the fruits of your hard works ~ and I am clearly an advocate of this maxim. However, I also believe that we must always put limitations in all our splurges and we must always be on-the-guard of the possible downfalls and opportunists that may take advantage. Take Pacquiao’s case. How sure are we that his politician supporters are there to just support him in getting honors for the country and will not take advantage of his popularity in their own political campaigns? Some of them even convinced Manny to run in a congressional seat in his province (and willingly gave their unsolicited support). How sure are we that his allies from showbiz aren’t just riding to his mass appeal to gain TV ratings? Okay okay, Manny is in Totoy Bato, my current favorite show (because of Regine Velasquez, of course!) but his only exposure was during the first week of the show’s airing. His short exposure didn’t help in the rating game!

This may sound bias since I am a GMA 7 fan… but his decision to transfer to ABS-CBN was really unethical. There were reports that Manny decided to re-join ABS because of the station’s offer of full-media coverage on his congressional candidacy by 2010. The same journalist also mentioned that Manny favored ABS because of its TV dominance in Saranggani (Manny’s hometown) and the opportunity for more exposure since ABS has international media partners and reporters. But as GMA 7 said, they are trying their best to offer the best deals for Manny ~ boxing clinics all over the country, two television shows on top of his current two, concerts in the US and in Canada ~ as soon as his schedule allows (again, as soon as his schedule allows!). It was clearly disappointing that because of an offer to provide exposure for a sure win in his political ambition, Manny has ditched his ties with GMA 7 as easy as that. Good that the network will not take this down sitting ~ they have plans of enforcing the stipulations of Manny’s exclusive contract with them should he not recall his decision to transfer to ABS. Not to mention that his contract with Solar Sports to cover his fight with Hatton and his future bouts till 2011 also exists. Ayan, lagot na nga si Pacquiao!

My next question and again sorry for being harsh ~ this isn’t the first time that Manny will face a suit on non-conformance to his contracts. He previously had problems with his boxing fight promoters. Now tell me, how would you elect someone to be a lawmaker who to me, doesn’t even understand his own contracts’ stipulations? Were has his politician advisers, ninongs and padrinos been? Can you not explain to Manny the repercussions of his thoughts and decisions? Or maybe again, I’m calling on the wrong persons… again, they were just after the “ride” to the People Champ’s popularity.

Now to Manny, there is still time to ponder. I know you’re good and are working hard to give your family a better life and your county more honors. Think about your next moves... weigh the risks… know your limitations… for sure, you’re wise enough to figure this out. You are already our hero. And the Philippines will surely honor you more if you’ll just be the Manny Pacquiao we admired from before ~ simple but brave, tenacious and a fighter with a big heart!

Farewell, Man from Manila!

I can’t claim that I am a fan. All I know is that I can sing a few of his songs ~ in its right lyrics and proper melodies.

The news that he passed away caught me by surprise last Friday, and yes, it did not sink in to me very clearly (because I was pre-occupied with our then client security audit and with the training I had to deliver that night). All the while, I thought he’s gonna make it ~ whenever I see his interviews in TV I find his optimism really affective. How he says his chemo sessions went well were more than assurances that he will soon be seen again in his noontime show. His entries in his Multiply Account seem like a journal of a modern day Hercules ready to battle all giant-sized adversaries. However, his last entry was more like of a resignation ~ I literally got goose bumps when I read the line “To His will I submit myself”. At that instant, I knew that the singer of Mga Kababayan Ko is already giving up.

The battle that Francis had with the Big C was again a proof of his strength ~ as a man, as a husband, as a father and as a Filipino. My prayers are actually with his wife Pia and their 8 kids. The Filipino crowd will surely miss Francis M ~ his charm, his voice, his music and his story, I included. However, I am very certain that the legacy the Master Rapper have left us will forever be inked in our history and in the hearts of every Filipino who has high regards to the line “I am the Man from Manila, Kami ang tinig na kayumanggi”.

Farewell, KIKO! Adios, Man from Manila. Thanks for being a proud Kayumanggi!


Man From Manila - Francis Magalona Music Code

*** - the English Version

*** is my way of titling a random blog. I am an avid fan of bullet points; I really find them helpful in organizing my tasks and my thoughts. And I realized that my first two ***s were all written in Tagalog, so for a change, I will write this one in pure English.

Here you go…

* I will be twenty-nine in a few more days. That meant an increment in my biological age. Leave my emotional, my psychological and my physical age behind please…

* I had a nice pre-birthday celebration with my dear Ts last Saturday. Envied the Avanza of Jojo and She. Hope I can drive my own car soon… So help me God!

* Mom has been sick since January and was diagnosed with nephrotic syndrome. She had biopsy last February 16. Good that only a tenth of her kidneys were damaged; she would only undergo four months of medication and another check-up by June. It sometimes leaves me penniless but that’s okay, I can’t trade my Mom’s health for anything. I love her so much.

* Dad also has been confined last weekend due to diarrhea. Thanks to the super high credit limit of Maxicare… we were saved with the expenses. We only paid for the Philhealth expenses since we can’t process a few documents from his office due to the weekend break. We can reimburse it though but need to wait for two-three weeks. Again, that’s okay… he is all that matters right now.

* In all these challenging happenings, I only held on to prayers. Truly, God is good!

* BOJO, my two months old Shih Tzu puppy is now with me. After a month of waiting, he is now at home taking all of us out with our respective stresses from a day’s work. He’s really playful and cute!

* Watched the three talked-about movies of 2009’s first quarter ~ Land Down Under, When I Met U and You Changed My Life. Reverse the succession to get how I am ranking them. I’m now a certified fan of John Lloyd Cruz. I love KC Concepcion. I still adore Angel Locsin. I believed in Sarah Geronimo’s talent. Who wouldn’t be blown away by Piolo Pascual? I am now retracting my annoyance about Rayver Cruz. And as for Richard Gutierrez ~ ahhmmm…

* Anyway, speaking about these movies, I find the sequels of KC-Richard and John Lloyd-Sarah starrers better than their firsts. With When I Met U ~ the story, the acting, the cinematography, the direction is definitely better. With You Changed My Life ~ the two lead characters have indeed proved that they rule the box-office now. Loved their chemistry. I am actually giving the credits to Sarah Geronimo ~ she can be paired with John Lloyd and even to Rayver and she fits to both of them. I think it has something to do with her bubbly personality.

* I was in awe to see how the cinema was jam-packed on a Monday afternoon when I watched You Changed My Life. I mean, come on! Monday’s supposed to be a busy day at work and at school being the first day of the week and yet, office guys and girls and students from nearby schools were there inside the movie house. Calling all the bosses, the school administrators and the parents, you should have checked where your folks are yesterday!

* I find Totoy Bato the only interesting show in GMA now during the primetime. Thanks to Robin and Regine for saving me from annoyance in Heart Evangelista’s dual character and in Marian Rivera’s whore-ic (sorry for the term) role.

* ABS’ Tayong Dalawa is a favorite. I’m having difficulty switching channels actually. I’m a fan of its story and its characters, not really of the actors. However, the addition of Jodi Sta. Maria is a delight!

* Watched the JS Prom of Ejay. Blame the age, I find this type of gathering a little off now. Thanks to my Bro’s good looks and he being the Prom King ~ I was relieved. I am still half-hearted though about his girlfriend. I still prefer the sister of my friend, who is his classmate for him ~ I know they will make a lovely couple.

* February and March are toxic months for me. And year-by-year, I get pressured whenever my birthday comes. But at least I still have work and I know I’m in a safe standing ~ especially now that the US recession has cast its shadow to the Philippines’ labor force.

* And to all these I can only say two things ~ Thank You Lord for all the blessings and Your guidance and of course, Happy Birthday to me!!!

25 Random Things About Me

I initially heard about this from my friend Ryan and he said he can’t take some time off to think the 25 random things about him. I never knew this has really been a fad till I chanced upon four entries from my Multiply contacts. Knowing me, I ought to join the recent craze.

So, drum rolls please…

1. I have three nicknames – Ady, Ian, Drix. Ady is my nickname at school, at work and the nickname my relatives from the mother side is calling me. Ian is my nickname at home and the moniker my father’s side’s relatives call me. Drix is the nickname I used when I worked before at Jollibee; my batchmates before were “pa-cute” so I also thought of a nickname that’s new and somewhat unique (I thought it was unique because no one knows me as Drix).
2. I eat all veggies except “okra”… I hate that slimy feeling when eating it… I eat “patola” though… weird!
3. My phobia is with frogs… got traumatized from my Biology Class way back high school when we dissected frogs… the night when we did it, I dreamt of all those frogs we “killed” attacking me.
4. I was once a fan of Jao Mapa. I bought his first and only album (in cassette), and back then, I memorized two of his songs ~ Talikogenic and Gimik. Actually, three songs; I just forgot to title of the other one. I liked his character in “Pare Ko” – Chipper, the fast-food crew.
5. I loved watching the Probe Team more than 5 and Up during my elementary and high school days. I also liked watching Mel and Jay. I once dreamt of being a talk show host.
6. I really can’t stand bad smells ~ decaying garbage, body odor, clothes that were not sun-dried ~ once these smells get into my nose, they stay longer than the usual and expect me to vomit and have instant migraine attack.
7. I took up Psychology because I idolized my Aunt Onie, aside from the fact that I once got into a “word-fight” with a psychologically challenged girl. And take note, I enjoyed it! Now, who do you think is sane between us?
8. I have hyperacidity but I can’t shy away from coffee.
9. I cheated in my Panitikan Class way back in college. And I still got a 1.50 from that subject though… madiskarteng bata!
10. I did not graduate with honors in college because I dropped one PE Subject (Dance Lessons). I did not regret it though… I know my general weighted average was higher than the class valedictorian… (bitter pa din ako!)
11. During my third and fourth year in college, I had two scholarships. I always get the second scholarship in cold cash hehehe so mayaman ako noon!
12. I am a frustrated painter. I really can’t draw!
13. I once competed in a Poem Recital Contest in Elementary. When I won, I couldn’t contain my happiness ~ tumulo ang laway ko on stage hehehe…
14. I was a lyrist way back in elementary and high school. I could also play the snare drum, the bass drum and the cymbals back then. Actually, kaya ko din mag-majorette!
15. I hate Home Economics classes during high school. I always ask my Mom to do my projects. And during my Basic Electricity subject, I cheated as well in a Major Exam… Kasi naman installation of mga electrical devices kung anu-ano… tapos zero or perfect lang ang score mo… Last resort: CHEAT… Kakahiyang mazero, first section pa naman ako!
16. Someone from my high school days has a special spot in my heart. Sino siya… Ahhmmm…
17. I am a Sustagen Kid. Remember Susie and Geno? And once when we ran out of cash and my parents couldn’t buy my Sustagen, they served me “kapeng barako”. Me being “pilosopo” asked my Dad, “Nanununtok po ba iyan?”
18. I was once an altar server… oh, wag na kayo mag-react. I also got six Best in Religion Awards during my Elementary Days.
19. I was called the “Dollar Son” by my parents. I was badly sick when I was still an infant.
20. When I was a kid, I was the one tasked to clean our “arinola”. Then by night time, I would have to put it near our bedroom so me and my siblings would have easy access to urinate.
21. I do not wear undies when I am at home… I just have shorts and that’s it! Hala, wag kayong pupunta sa amin para bosohan ako!
22. My room is a small messy place… have CDs everywhere, paper everywhere, shoes everywhere, clothes everywhere… and of course, dusts everywhere.
23. I am now missing Pizza Hut…
24. I can’t live without my cell phone.
25. I will soon have my BOJO