A Few Lines...

I requested friends to give me topics they want me to write about on my blog and here's what I've gathered from them...

Marriage - from Sandy Marcelo - if there's one thing that should be forever for me, that would be marriage. Not because I was raised to believe so but because I believe that marriage is a life-long commitment to the person you chose to be your spouse. That is why I always advice my friends NOT to marry for the wrong reasons because, there's no simple way out.

Inday Quotes - from Leo Naluz - you see, it was Ederlyn before and now here comes Inday. And yes, I also forward those messages... For those who don't know her, Inday po is the infamous maid who's ingglisera and whose sentence construction you would have to unearth. Even Mr. Webster himself would probably have nose bleed when he speaks to this nanny. Anyway, bottomline is sikat pa din si Inday... and she's a living proof that there's reincarnation... nabuhay uli eh :-). Leo naman, nonsense to!!!

Third Party - from Joanne Paguinto - Third parties are bullshit!!! Assholes!!! I don't know why there are people who fancy meddling with something they should be totally out of... and to them, isa na lang siguro sabihin natin... MAY ARAW DIN KAYO!!! Hala, tinamaan ako!!! :-)

Advantage of being the Third Party - from Jhoanna Ander - naman!!! Ako nga ang nabiktima ako pa magkukuwento ano mga advantages ng third party??? Haller??? Pero sige, nun panahong naging third party din ako (ayan ha, umamin na ako!), masaya naman siya pero hello... nakakapraning din... but one thing certain, I don't like the feeling... eh si ano kaya, masaya na ngayon? I don't think so!!! Har har har!!!

Sex Addiction - from Jhoanna Ander ule (ahmmm) - Jander ha!!! As Sigmund Freud taught us, sex is the main drive of every human being... but Jander, hindi po ako sex addict and hindi ko pa siya natitikman so how could I say a line to this topic. Anyway, if you're partner is really really hot, delicious, spicy, tempting and any other adjectives you wanted to describe him/her, then GO!!! Splurge!!! Just make sure you have a Frenzy condom on your pocket... hala ka, kakapromote mo pa lang eh lumalandi ka na ha!!!

Metrosexuality - from Francesca Tio - I don't see anything bad to men or even women who are proclaiming themselves as metrosexuals. As long as you want to feel good about yourself and you have the resources then it's okay. Somehow somewhere somewhat, I am also a metrosexual and I don't care about what other people are saying about me... Bakit hinihingi ko ba sa inyo ginagastos ko???

Online Relationship - from QA Red - I had this before and my most recent was also online... Hindi siya maganda... all are just pretensions... I believe that for a relationship to work it should be with physicalities and emotions... Heller, mas masarap kaya Red na yun I love you is naririnig kesa nababasa lang sa YM o e-mail... And as for me, I don't go for this. Lokohan lang to. I know a few good relationships that started online... but hey, more than the online chats and e-mail exhanges, these few ones that I know centered the relationship into one thing - and that is GENUINE LOVE.

Friends with Benefits - from Joanne Paguinto uli - Ay, parang type ko to, joke! Seriously speaking, lugi dito ang babae... Ke sex o ano man yang benefit na yan, bottomline is, friendship lang din ang ending ninyo... no commitment, no intense affection, no surety. I have nothing against those who are okay with this set-up but hey, martyrs are no longer given monuments so why would you want to be one? Go for something that can give you whatever love and affection you deserve. Toink, Ady!

Friends or Lovers - from Myla Baloca - next question please!!!

Interview Bloopers - from Iche Magalona - I'll post a separate blog about this one... baka tomorrow.

Secrets to a Long Lasting Relationship - from Ever Rocela - di kaya ikaw dapat ang tanungin ko about this one, Ever? You're now five years with She and six years with, sino nga yun??? Joke!!! Anyway, I think for a relationship to work, here are my ingredients... trust, communication, loyalty, love and respect. If any of this five peter out, then try to regain it. If after all the efforts it still failed, then give up... no one will be contented in a relationship that has doubt, abandonment, betrayal, hatred and insolence.

Fixing a Broken Heart - from Iche Magalona - magblog ka... joke!!! I think the best way to fix a broken heart is to stand up from where you failed. Pick up the pieces... it will not make you whole again but that could be a good start... call a friend, talk to a family member, spend time alone in your room... cry if you want, shop if you can, pity yourself if you should... hurting is a phase believe me... and after all these, you will see yourself a better person... ready to love someone who's better...

How to Hide Your Indiscretions from Others - from Ryan Salamat - guilty ako!!! Naman!!! Am I hiding? Though I think I am guilty on this one, I am basically the what-you-see-is-what-you-get type. I may not let you in to my thoughts at first, but soon as I am ready to pour my emotions, then let's have a cup of coffee. I think there's no best way to do it but be true to yourself. Unmask the hypocrisy in you. Be not afraid to show who you really are, after all, no one's gonna appreciate your whole being more than any body else but YOU.

Your Firsts - from Migs Miguel - I'll write something about this on a separate blog.

The difference of "Being Alone" & "Being Lonely" - from Gerry Cuntapay - Hahaha, ewan!!! I think being alone is a choice while the other is a coincidence. Admittedly, I have the tendency to be lonely when in fact I am not alone. Being alone is you alienating yourself to the wonders of life while being lonely is the feeling of alienation to these wonders of which you yourself can't do something about. May sense ba sinabi ko, parang wala? Hahaha!!!

Friends or Lovers - from Myla Baloca - cge na nga... Pinapipili mo ako di ba? I think a good lover must first be a good friend... someone who listens and understands your very self. Someone who's gonna accept the person in you. And we know that indeed, only genuine friends can do this. So friendship ang choice ko!!! Myla naman!!!